Silencing Critics Through Character

Working in corporate America for over thirty years I've had my share of conflicts in the workplace. As you read this, I'm sure you can probably agree that you've had your share as well if you've worked with others. 

Some years ago, while sitting at my desk, I noticed a disturbing trend that was developing in my office. Management had changed the dress code from business casual and began to allow people to dress however they wanted in an attempt to be voted one of the 100 greatest places to work at the time. As the dress code changed, I noticed that not only did the dress become more casual, but so did the conversation. Curse words began to get tossed around a lot more freely. As this went on for weeks, the language progressively got worse. As I was sitting at my desk, I recall one of the managers coming and saying, "Good morning, [expletive]!!" to one of the employees. It got so bad that a department meeting was held to discuss the issue.

In the department meeting someone anonymously had indicated that the excessive swearing was an issue. While speaking about the issue, the department head casually began to swear and stated that it'd probably be difficult to address this issue effectively because it was a part of the culture. At that point some of the employees surmised that it was a couple of people that probably complained, and they became the target of some of the crude humor.

If your company is one where swearing, office politics, personal attacks, and contentious relationships are allowed to flourish, your best defense is to keep your conduct above reproach. Titus 2:7-8 reads "In all things show yourselves to be an example of good deeds...dignified, sound in speech which is beyond reproach, in order that the opponent may be put to shame, having nothing bad to say about us."

You may come across as a target at first for living a godly life and become the target of criticism. But keep pursuing a life of righteousness and be an example to your coworkers with your work ethic, your speech, your honesty, and good character, and it will silence your haters. Your supervisor will see your composure and confidence, along with your results, and you will prosper in your career.

A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger (Proverbs 15:1)